Harriet asked some wonderful porn stars for their best tips on how to have the perfect first kiss. They also showed us how to do it in this video!
Harriet spoke to Abella Danger, Whitney Wright, Mackenzie Moss, Gia Derza and Chloe Cherry for their tips on ow to get it right. Aren’t you jealous that Harriet got to kiss all of them?!
Not only did the girls give their own anecdotes of bad first kisses and good first kisses, they also gave advice. And demonstrated with Harriet how to have the perfect first kiss.
We asked for all the details, from knowing when your girl wants to be kissed to when is the best time for it. Plus the all important question of what are the best techniques and which are the best locations for the perfect first kiss!
Where is the best location for the first kiss?
It’s always hard knowing where to kiss a girl for the first time. Whether to kiss her somewhere public or private, with people around or nobody in sight. Plus if you’re planning the best location for the first kiss it might be hard to be spontaneous.
General advice for choosing where to kiss a girl for the first time is sensible. Stay somewhere that you’re both comfortable in, usually when nerves get involved for the first kiss it’s preferable to be somewhere quieter. You don’t necessarily want a big audience watching you make the first kiss and having a sense of intimacy will help make the moment special.
Thankfully, we had our team of experts on hand to tell us what their thoughts were!
Chloe Cherry: “Honestly, any place is a good place if it’s quiet and you won’t be disturbed. So not in a restaurant or anywhere public. But if you’re in the car after your date, then that’s the perfect place because you’re just together.”
Whitney Wright: “A first kiss can be anywhere as long as she really wants it.” Well this sure gives scope to get exploring wherever you fancy a snog.
Gia Derza: “It could be at the movies or in the car, it could be anywhere. The perfect location for the first kiss is wherever it happens…” Mystery lady anyone?
When is the right time?
When it comes to knowing when is the right time for the first kiss, you need to trust your gut. There’s no need to rush and ultimately, waiting a bit longer will just increase the anticipation. The perfect first kiss should be an exciting and special occasion.
Nerves are normal but you shouldn’t worry that it’ll be anything other than great. Both of you are kissing each other for the first time so try to relax and remember, practice makes perfect! Knowing how soon is OK might be tricky but when you connect, you’ll sense the moment has arrived. So keep your breath mints handy!
Chloe Cherry: “I think by the second time you see each other it’s fine to kiss. Because sometimes the first time you see each other it can be too much expectations for that to be all that happens.”
Mackenzie Moss: “It could be like, something really cute like you’re out on your first date at an aquarium or something. You’re having a tender moment, just looking at the fish…”
Abella Danger: “I don’t know. The girl has to give them the cue, when she gives you that look.”
Gia Derza: “If she brings all of her hair like behind her and shows off her neck. I think that’s a thing.” Gia demonstrates this beautifully and does other things even better!
How do you know when she’s ready?
The general consensus was to pay attention to her body language and whether she’s maintaining eye contact with you. When there’s intense eye contact and you’re leaning towards each other, it’s fair to say it could be game on!
Mackenzie Moss: “I think if you’re making intense eye contact and are leaning forwards.”
Whitney Wright: “When she looks at you like she wants to eat you, you get that look that she like wants you to kiss her. You shouldn’t just wait for her to ask you. You should feel her energy and read her body language, like if her entire body is facing you and she just can’t keep her eyes off you then you should just kiss her.”
Abella even gave the camera ‘the look’ needed to know when to kiss her. We’re talking lip biting and a lot of eye contact. If you want to see more of Abella, you can check her out here! “It’s a lot of eye contact, if I’m just looking at you… fucking kiss me.” Yes Ma’am Danger!
Gia confirmed to pay attention to the signs that she’s in the mood. With neck exposure being high on the radar. If you’re a vampire fan then, this sounds like an awesome moment.
If you’re unsure whether she’s ready for a first kiss, you can take Will Smith’s advice in Hitch and just lean in part of the way. Should she be ready, she’ll meet you halfway and if she seems unsure, you can still kiss her cheek. Being a gentleman never hurts.
Have you ever had a bad first kiss?
We also asked the girls if they had ever had a bad first kiss and what their advice was to make the perfect first kiss. Most people have had an awkward first kiss because let’s be real, practice makes perfect. Pornstars also have bad first kisses at times, so we needn’t worry!
Abella Danger: “Mm, no I don’t think so… But once it was kinda like he was just licking my face and I was not for it. Don’t go straight for the tongue. Just start soft and then make out.”
Abella also told Harriet about one of her best first kisses in a club where she was grinding on a guy. “He was touching me, touching my boobs and stuff and then he kissed me.” Next they were making out and it was “the hottest thing ever!”
You’ll also be turned on watching her recreate it with Harriet! Abella and Harriet got their grind on and kissed.
Mackenzie Moss: “Have I ever had a bad first kiss? Not like anything atrocious but maybe like knocking teeth, something a bit awkward.” She recommends touching the girls’ head but not pulling her hair the way she grips Harriet’s.
Whitney Wright: “The boy was licking my teeth, it was really strange.” What should you do? “You should just be very passionate and have your hands all over her, yeah…”
Chloe Cherry: “He didn’t like kiss me, he wasn’t so romantic he just put his tongue all over my mouth. He waited to kiss me and that just gives you time to enjoy it.”
Harriet recommends: “Nothing was wrong with the kiss apart from the pungent smell of onions. So that would be my advice, don’t eat smelly foods before the first kiss, unless your partner has eaten the same smelly foods.” So if you’re having garlic bread, make sure she eats garlic bread, right?