I first met Lily Cade at the 2015 AVN Expo. We met in the bathroom of the of the cupcake girl’s suite, bonding over the disasters the wrong shade of eyeshadow can cause. Although the circumstances were unusual, I’m very happy to have had the chance to meet such a wonderful person, and we have since become good friends.
Lily Cade and I met at this years AVN Expo and I had the pleasure of interviewing her, as well as just hanging out with her in general. My interview with Lily Cade cemented my opinion of what a hard working and beautiful individual she is, as well as teach me some interesting things about how to work with women.
I was surprised but not shocked to hear that Lily Cade has been with over 3000 women. Being in her presence, and I could see how she exuded this kind of seductive aura, and when she looks you in the eye and speaks with her low voice, it’s very hard not to fall for her charm.
In fact, I’ve never really felt seduced until I met Lily Cade. She looks into your eyes and you feel that she is really looking at you. It’s like a spotlight being beamed right at you, and you feel that you’re the centre of the world. It creates this emotional connection that I think is rare to find working in porn. It’s with this intense bond that Lily Cade is able to bring out the best in her co-stars when she works.
There is something to really admire on set when you are immersed in your partner. You don’t worry about camera angles or lighting or sound quality. That’s someone else’s job. Instead you don’t really think, you only feel. It means that Lily Cade’s video are much more sensual, due to the authentic attraction between co-stars.
But she isn’t just a performer. Lily Cade has also worked behind the camera and even directed. She has ambition as well as skill. In porn, it can be very hard to go against the mainstream. Lily Cade challenges what it means to be an all-girl performer. She wants to show what real lesbians do and how they really interact. She show’s that women come in different types, not all flowing long blonde locks and fast paced scissoring.
I really wanted to get a chance to work with her whilst i was at the AVNs but we were both unable find the time in our hectic scheduling. Instead i hope to work with her in the future, when I come back to America or if she decides to visit the UK. I want to do this both from a professional and personal standpoint.
I hope everyone watches the interview I did with Lily Cade because it’s really teaches you a lot of things about the female sex, and how to connect with them on a more intense level. I learnt so much in such a short space of time, and she is very eloquent with her explanations. It was a real highlight of my trip to the AVNs this year.
Don’t forget to check her website out here: lilycade.com