I love giving head. I love the soft, velvety feel of the penis in my hand, and the distinct taste of cock in my mouth. Every blowjob is different also, really depending on the partner, cock shape, mood and general lust levels. I’m not joking when I say this, but giving good head should be made into it’s own art form.

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The blowjob videos I’ve made so far are terrible. They hardly show how I give a blowjob. Why? Because I’m nervous as hell doing them. Having a third person watch and film you puts a lot of pressure on you! My head goes blank and I’m basically left sitting there thinking “This…is… a penis. In front of me. Now what?” I’m sure a lot of you ladies (or men!) out there have been in that position. Sometimes our partners deserve a blowjob but you’re just not in the mood to give one, and you forget how to do it right!

This blog post isn’t going to have bullet points. I considered it, but that isn’t sexy. And blowjobs have to be sexy. So instead, here’s a little narration, and I hope you can gleam into the basics of what a blowjob can be!

He sits down in front of me, on the edge of the bed and I’m knelled in front. This is a great position because my head is at the exact right height and both of us are pretty comfortable. I actually have a pillow under my knees, because I want this to be a special blowjob, I want to make him cum, and in those times my knees always gets sore first. My head is close enough so that I can already smell his manhood, and I look up and smile at him.

This part is as exciting for me as it is for him. I start off by kissing the tip of his penis. Just a light kiss. I snake my tongue out, oh so lightly around the top of his head and trail it down the shaft. I like to do this because it teases both of us. Then, again still ever so lightly, I take the head into my mouth. I twirl my tongue around it inside, and suck on it very gently.

I salivate very easily, so already the head is slick and moist. I take him into my mouth further, but slowly because I have a very annoying gag reflex, and I take him as far as I can before the mechanism of the gag starts to happen. A gush of saliva comes out, which is actually want I want. I let it drip out of my mouth, down from my lips and onto his penis. Using my both my hands, I smile up at him as I start to coat him with my juices. I make sure he’s super slippery, and occasionally bob down my head to take him in my mouth.

As he becomes more lubricated my hands take a firmer grasp. First one hand pulls down, then the other. Sometimes I twist or change the number of fingers. Handjobs and blowjobs go hand in (mouth?) and giving a good handjob, is in my opinion, as important as giving a good blowjob. Keeping a steady pace with a firm grip I work his shaft as my tongue plays around with the head. I circle under the head, or pay extra attention to the very tip with quick licks.

Then when I think he’s getting used to it, I try and take him as far in my mouth as possible. I pull out almost immediately and then push him back in. My mouth is full of cock and I can’t do much with my tongue. Instead it’s more like a challenge to see how much I can take. Some girls find it really easy to deepthroat, but I just haven’t managed it. With all the gagging done in this process his cock is completely drenched, making it super easy to stroke the base of his penis or play around with his balls. I alternate between stroking, sucking, licking, kissing. The real key is to keep the balanced pace whilst also changing it up.

You can nearly always tell when a guy is about to cum. Sometimes he thrusts into you without really realising, or asks you not to stop. It always gets more frantic and I’m desperate to feel him shoot his load onto me. I suck and lick and stroke madly, loving the taste and feel. I especially love it if my partner makes noises near cumming, either telling me he’s going to or just grunts of pleasure. I think guys like to be silent because it’s more manly, but really, I need a guy to give me some indication. Maybe pull my hair, or push your cock into my mouth, or be a little bit rough when I’m being gentle. I like the encouragement. And I like knowing when you’re going to cum.

Finally he tenses, and suddenly shoots of hot white sperm cover me. I’m always surprised by how much comes out. I saw on TV once it’s meant to be a teaspoon, but I swear it’s more, because it splatters on my face, my breasts, my hair. It feels hot and slimey but in a good way and I’m always left giggling and horny.