I’ve never been a good sexter. Sexting always seemed intimidating and I was completely clueless on the whole ordeal. It turns out however that sexting like a boss is actually pretty easy. Here’s my quick guide on how to sext.
Rule #1 (The only real rule for sexting like a boss): Keep things simple
I was always over-thinking sexting before, and then writing overly complicated texts that were not sexy.
Simple means tell the other person what you want. This can be what you want to do to them;
“I want to put your hard cock in my mouth right now.”
Or what you want them to do to you;
‘I want you to take me from behind. Hard.”
It can however be something as simple as telling them that you’re horny and thinking about them. I find that being told someone is turned on by me will instantly turn me on. Why not tell them you’ve just masturbated, and from there you can tell them exactly what you were thinking of whilst you were doing it.
“I was just thinking about you, and now my panties are really wet.”
Progressing on from that, I find telling my partner fantasies I have is a good way to sext. I like this method because you have the option of engaging in a two way conversation, your partner can join in with the fantasy, or you can just be descriptive by yourself if your partner isn’t as confident with sexting. It’s also great because your partner will now know your fantasies for future.
“I have a fantasy where I want you to tie my hands to the bedpost, blindfold me and then tease me until I beg you to fuck me senseless.”
Finally here are my top sexting DON’Ts
- Send an unsolicited dick pics. Girls often send topless pictures, and there never seems to be a wrong time to do that. Dick pictures out of nowhere however are often considered creepy rather than sexy.
- Send any unsolicited sexts for that matter. If you don’t know for sure that the person actually wants sexts from you, don’t do it.
- Don’t use emojis unless you’re both 15 year old girls.