Financial domination is a developing fetish that submissive men seem to love. When it comes to wanting to be obedient, servitude isn’t always the limit for some men. Having a woman control them through financial domination as well as physical service seems to be in growing demand.
A large part of why financial domination can appeal and is increasingly popular, is because it works on virtual platforms. For men who are submissive and want to enjoy being dominated but can’t do so in person, financial domination is an easy solution.
Financial domination can work on nearly any platform so long as there’s a way of transferring payment. Any dominatrix can offer financial domination, both in person and at a distance. Commonly, PayPal and bank transfers are used while some may also choose to accept gifts.
Why is it hot to have a FinDom?
For the submissive men who want to experience financial domination, they get the thrill of being controlled. Financial domination can link into other aspects of the BDSM spectrum. As it ties in well with humiliation, degradation and servitude.
Being a ‘pay pig’ to a dominatrix brings with it certain perks that submissive men enjoy. If they like giving money and gifts to a dominatrix, financial domination appeals because it’s a guaranteed aspect of the arrangement.
In the same way as you might like giving gifts to your girlfriend, showering a dominatrix with ‘tributes’ can achieve the same effect. The man gets to show his appreciation of her and ‘worship’ her through paying material tributes. On webcam shows, viewers can tip the model for certain ‘rewards’ – similarly giving a ‘tribute’ to a financial dominatrix links into this.
Often the women (and men) who offer financial domination, project a powerful persona. Whether they perform or genuinely believe they are entitled to the best things is down to the individual. FinDoms enjoy receiving tributes from their pay pigs, not only as it’s an easy form of payment but because it demonstrates the commitment and submission of that person.
Level of financial domination
On a basic level, financial domination may be as little as having to pay a dominatrix $5 a week. It has a sliding scale depending on what services are being exchanged and what suits both parties. More often, the amount of money paid is considerably higher as a large thrill of financial domination is the sense of being ‘forced’ into paying larger sums.
For submissive ‘pay pigs’ who really want to experience the full scope of financial domination, the sky is the limit. Some men will give their bank details or credit cards to their dominatrix. This then obviously allows her to spend his money as she chooses.
When a guy is married or has a family of his own, part of the taboo appeal of financial domination is having his money ‘taken’ away from those who deserve it. The fetish around betrayal is a complex one but for some men, the cheating game of seeing a dominatrix and spoiling her instead of their partners/kids is a turn on.
Being submissive to a FinDom doesn’t necessarily mean the man has any money to really give her. In fact, sometimes if he has less money, it’s more erotic for him when she takes it. The humiliation of being taunted for being broke after paying for her services frequently appears as a key part of submissive fantasies.
Some men enjoy having the money physically taken off their person. Or want to just give control to someone else so that they feel like they’re at their mercy. Being able to sometimes ‘earn’ back their own funds can crop up in the scenarios explored.
Who does FinDom services?
FinDom services are often available online from webcam models and escorts. It’s easy to find women who do it as they readily advertise for long-distance ‘sugar daddy/pay pigs.’ Some men think being a ‘pay pig’ is similar to being a ‘sugar daddy’ but it is different.
Primarily because sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangements often favour a dominant male dynamic. Whereas FinDom set ups nearly always include a dominant women controlling a submissive man. The ages of both parties being rather irrelevant.
Commonly, women who offer FinDom services will try to specialise in particular fetishes. Some will be exclusive to BDSM whereby the financial domination works alongside S&M play, bondage and general domination activities. There may be physical punishments for not delivering the amount of financial servitude she wants to receive.
Some women may cater to clientele that like MILFs or BBW women instead. They tailor their financial domination style to this. BBW women may offer trampling, smothering and choking scenes or crushing fantasies. Or a mother/son style role play with a MILF dominatrix demanding her ‘son’ submissive pays ‘mommy’ back for her rewards.
Being a FinDom
FinDoms may choose to offer financial domination alongside offering real life meets. Or alternatively could do all of it on a virtual platform via webcam or long distance with occasional meets. The extent to which they do it really depends on the kind of submissive they attract and their own schedules.
For the women who become financial dominatrixes, the appeal of it is fairly simple. They get to control a submissive man who they can reward or punish according to their whim. There’s obvious financial benefits to being a FinDom with real life sexual contact being at their discretion.
The worship/slave dynamic is a field that is very popular amongst submissive men. As it links into regular fetishes like feet, generally being a submissive man and being a people pleaser. For generous partners, financial domination can seem a bit bizarre when they’re naturally giving. But financial domination certainly isn’t going away anytime soon.